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July 10, 2006

perspective.....

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she played with hard candy, canon 20d

this was sent to me from one who knows me so well...i had to share this
with you...

"I have heard that animals are less conflicted in their inner knowing than we are.
I have also heard that they rendevous with us in order to help us hear the things
we need to hear.

Since critters are not conflicted in the way that we are, they are free to follow
their inner guidance no matter what anyone else is doing. The squirrel knows when
it is hungry and it goes after food and its inner guidance helps it jump
fearlessly from branch to branch and helps it find tiny nuts buried in the ground
etc. The squirrel does not weep when it is hungry, it does not focus on hunger...
it focuses on food and is directed to find it.

I think Lily was following her inner guidance and no one was going to interfere.
No one was going to "save her" either, she did not need saving. Lily has always
known exactly what she wanted and would not stop until she found some way to
experience what she loved... a sense of Freedom and a knowing that all is well in
the world and she was going to go out and experience it. When she decided to make
her exit from this planet, no one was going to stop her from doing that either.
That is probably why her illness went undetected until it was too late. She did
not want any interference with her desire. I do not know why she was ready to
leave at this time and that is what brings up my other belief... that animals
rendevous with us to help us learn things.

Maybe Lily wanted you to get better at letting go. Maybe Lily wanted you to let
go of the burden of wanting to "save" everything. Maybe Lily wanted to teach you
about Freedom. She was a great teacher of freedom. She was a great teacher of
"have no fear" and of "go out into the world and have FUN!". Maybe Lily wanted
you to teach you that you have a right to live your own life in a way that is
pleasing to you even if it does not please everyone else. Lily never came to this
planet to live life on behalf of you, she came here to live. She probably wants
you to do the same. She probably wants you to break free. She probably wants you
to be a rascal. She probably wants you to trust that life is wonderful and it is
meant for fun. She probably wants you to feel easier about the coming and going
of things. Because afterall, nothing is ever really gone, it just changes shape.
So maybe she wants you to remember that. Lily is powerful, so are you. Do not be
afraid
to express yourself in this life. Do not think that living your life on behalf of
your own desire and inner knowing is going to leave you isolated or unloved...
trust that as you come out to greet life, life will greet you with people that are
rascally and full of life and curiousity and creativity and passion and are not
willing to conform. Lily didn't. She lived her life and exited this life exactly
as she wished. Maybe she wants you to do the same."

Posted by jen on July 10, 2006 08:50 AM

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Comments

Whoever wrote that made me feel better for you and for all of us who face a "loss" of any kind. What a wonderful way to approach and learn from Lily's death. What a wonderful way to learn about "loss" and what is then "found" and left behind as a "gift".

Posted by: KB at July 9, 2006 10:47 AM


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Jen,

that was mind blowing. So beautiful and so true. I think our animals come into our lives to teach us so much more than we realize. I hope you are well today.

Jenn

Posted by: Jenn at July 9, 2006 11:17 AM


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That was really very lovely. . .

Posted by: Popeye at July 9, 2006 12:38 PM


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oh wow...

Posted by: Jenny Rebecca at July 9, 2006 01:25 PM


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goosebumps the whole way through

Posted by: kristy at July 9, 2006 02:17 PM


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What a beautiful, beautiful perspective! Thank you for sharing it with us.

Posted by: Alex at July 9, 2006 05:39 PM


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beautiful. Doesn't stop the pain and the hurt and the loss - but certainly adds a whole new dimension and puts it into words so perfectly. thank you.

Posted by: Caroline at July 9, 2006 06:12 PM


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Someone has a real talent with words. I think you should frame this in your house so that the words will soak into your heart.

Posted by: Sara at July 9, 2006 07:32 PM


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wow - you have someone there who knows you well and who can express themselves like no other...take her words deep within yourself and breathe baby, breathe!

Posted by: stef at July 9, 2006 10:47 PM


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what a great friend you have! a beautiful perspective & one I will remember.

Posted by: emily at July 10, 2006 04:58 AM


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aww, i needed to hear that too. i hope you are well!! celisa

Posted by: celisa at July 10, 2006 08:56 AM


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Jen,
First I wanted to express my sympathy in your loss. I have five animals who are like my family to me also.
Second,I am at a point in my life that i needed to hear this too.So to whomever wrote this. I say thank you too.
yolanda

Posted by: yolanda at July 10, 2006 09:07 AM


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One thing is clear to me, you have a lot of folks around you who care for you very much. :)

My thought after reading this lovely letter was, "Maybe Lily needed to be free of her body so she could be with you all the time."

I am going through a bit of kitty-health-fears right now too and I feel almost guilty that my sweet Bernie is feeling better now. My kitty Charlie died two years ago, she was 19 years old and every time I feel sad, I immediately also feel so, so grateful.

I am right there with you Jen about cats=family. Big hug to you.

Posted by: Laura at July 10, 2006 09:58 AM


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Unbelieveably moving...I am speechless

Posted by: lemonade game at July 10, 2006 11:15 AM


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Jen,
More warm thoughts from me on Lily. My dad just sent me this (my Boompah (grampa) just passed away. By Thoreau:

Every blade in the field,
Every leaf in the forest,
Lays down its life in its season
As beautifully as it was taken up.

Wrap yourself in loving sweet cat purr memories,
Holly

Posted by: Holly at July 10, 2006 11:31 AM


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wow.

that is truly beautiful and profound.

all hail guru lily!
{and the lovely person who translated lily's message for you}

Posted by: Leonie at July 10, 2006 05:55 PM


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yes. this is so huge...these words, this understanding of lily, her life, what she means to you, and how she is your teacher. i am so sorry for your loss and all that it invites you to feel.
when my golden retriever, traveler, died last year, i was heartbroken. i had lost the closest friend i had had during a time in my life that was very challenging. it soon became apparent that he had given me many gifts in his life, but also with his death. two months later, my grandmother died somewhat unexpectedly. she was my oldest friend. his death had given me a glimpse into grief i had never experienced. so when she died, even though i was not at all prepared, i at least had some frame of reference.
animals are our greatest teachers. there is no invitation for guilt, just love.

Posted by: liz elayne at July 11, 2006 11:30 AM


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Thank You For Sharing
That was so Heart Felt!
I Co Host a Group called
RainBow Bridge. It is a
online Pet Memorial Group!
I would love to Post this?
Thank You
Peace & Blessings ~ Catherine K.

Posted by: Catherine at July 17, 2006 05:00 PM


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